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The Purple People Pleaser

June 26, 2020

We develop many mechanisms in our arsenal to get our needs met. We compensate in ways for so long and they become so ingrained that we don’t even know they’re operating anymore. Let me break down how I think we develop these. We’re born wanting and needing a two main things-love and belonging. We need […]

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Petrol for the Soul #190

June 22, 2020

Good day! Now more than ever it’s important to have a strong mind. We need that in order to see the things through in our lives that matter to us and to be able to shape the world in important ways. Something beautiful: Something thought provoking: The wild card: Thanks for your time, have a […]

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At the Intersection of Truth and Belonging

June 19, 2020

Dostoyevsky says, “Lying to ourselves is more deeply ingrained than lying to others.” Do you think he’s telling you the truth? Why is this? And how does it work? Is this surprising? Our need to belong is so, so powerful. We’re neurobiologically wired to connect. We also believe that at nearly any time the people […]

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Petrol for the Soul #189

June 15, 2020

Each week I curate a few pieces of content and put it here for you to consume to manage your mindset. I’ve been doing this for 189 weeks. It has ever so slightly evolved in that time but the guiding intention has remained-feed your soul and provide you meaningful content to consume. I’m big on […]

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Mud Puddles and Swimming Pools

June 12, 2020

When I was a kid the world felt insurmountable. Problems and obstacles were gigantic and I didn’t “think” I had the tools to take things on. My obstacles to happiness were analogous to a body of water, standing on the beach looking out over the ocean, no boat, couldn’t swim, and inadequately supplied to even […]

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Petrol for the Soul #188

June 8, 2020

Good day! There’s no better time than right now to pay attention and raise your consciousness. The world needs your participation. It starts with knowing who you are and why you do all that you do. Then you can shape what you want to create by making choices on purpose rather than your old, fearful […]

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Maybe it’s not my turn right now…

June 5, 2020

One of the things that I’ve explored at length is the victim identity that I utilize for gain. It’s delusional. I’m going to switch to “we” pronoun now to include you as this concept is meant to help you see something about yourself you may not see. If we focus on what we don’t have […]

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Petrol for the Soul #187

June 1, 2020

Every single week I’m here pitching and peddling my agenda on your mindset. Welcome or welcome back. I get that you may want to go down the path of mayhem, destruction, chaos, and be out of control with your thoughts. I won’t stop you. If you need that, by all means do what you’re gonna […]

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Tough Love. 🖤🖤🖤

May 29, 2020

Your relationships should indicate if you are, in fact, living the life you say you want to. If your life isn’t the way you want, are you willing to do whatever it take to make it that way? Think about it… happiness and success is available for you if you do whatever you need to […]

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Petrol for the Soul #186

May 25, 2020

Week after week after week you have an opportunity to chip away at building and creating your mindset. This happens in all sorts of ways including engineering what you feed your brain and mind. If you put shit in you get shit out. This is a basic law in life. So here’s your weekly dose […]

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