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Conditional Love

October 28, 2022

We’ve all heard about unconditional love but we’ve rarely experienced it or haven’t ever. The truth is, we live our lives trying to get our needs met in lower consciousness ways. Unconditional love that comes and goes is conditional. But we try like hell to believe that it’s unconditional. My ability to access “persuasive” means […]

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Petrol for the Soul #331

October 24, 2022

Feed your brain challenging, beautiful, inspiring things. What we put across our mind changes what we think and changes the way we see ourselves, others, and the world. Change that and everything changes. My idea for the week: Something thought provoking: Something amazing/beautiful: The wild card: Thanks for your time, have a great week!

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Healing Versus Potential

October 21, 2022

Although the use of spectrums creates a binary idea to things I use them a lot to help myself and others orient themselves about where they are and what they’re trying to get. If we can figure out where we are and then where we want to be or what we want to have we […]

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Trauma and co-regulation, co-dependent, and enmeshment.

October 14, 2022

Trauma, trauma, trauma… first off, what is it? We have so many working examples and models today. Is it from being deployed in a war torn corner of the world, seeing/participating in things that tears your heart and soul? Soul wounds? Childhood experiences of violence or sexual misconduct? Trauma is subjective snd relative, meaning, it’s […]

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Petrol for the Soul #330

October 10, 2022

Is it the beginning of the week again already? Wow! Time flies when you’re having fun. I recently heard that the reason time seems to go faster and faster is because,”A typical explanation that might explain some of this perception is the simple fact that for a 10-year-old, one year represents 10 percent of their […]

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Dysfunctional Warrior/Lover Axis

October 7, 2022

We have lots of different parts inside of us. Each part playing an instrument that when tuned well and conducted properly play beautiful music. Music = your life experience. We’re all living at some level of disharmony all the time. Tuning instruments, learning music, and following the maestro are an art that can never be […]

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Petrol for the Soul #329

October 3, 2022

In order to be the best version of ourselves we don’t have to give 110% all the time but we do need to give 100% of what we have. So if I only have 40% I give 100% of that. This becomes a habit and at the same time we’re aligned with what we can […]

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Guilt, Blame, and Punishment

September 30, 2022

Today we are going to spend some time examining when things go wrong. What does it look like in your relationships when something goes awry? Is there an explosion? Is there a withdrawal of love? Does everyone just ignore it to avoid conflict? I see all of these in the conversations I have with clients […]

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Petrol for the Soul #328

September 26, 2022

Marsha Linehan has become a favorite source of mine for good perspective. Check her stuff out and see what I mean. Of course check out my brilliance and definitely go subscribe to my YouTube channel, please and thank you. My idea for the week: Something thought provoking: Something amazing/beautiful: The wild card: Thanks for your […]

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The god hole

September 23, 2022

There is a specific era in all of our evolutions when the imprinting of our surroundings teach us what we “should” be. It sets defined areas in our being that are designated for love, success, power, exhilaration, spirit, etc. Some of those areas get more developed than others, depending on our specific environment. Often what […]

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