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Needs and desire: How do we communicate about what we want sexually?

January 5, 2018

This week Maddie Berky and I dive into the topic around sex of communicating your needs. What does sex mean to you? What do you like about it? What makes someone a good lover? From losing my virginity at 18 to about my mid-twenties I didn’t know any of my partners’ answers to these questions. […]

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Petrol for the Soul #61

January 1, 2018

Happy New Year! Welcome to starting your year off with some positive, thought provoking media where we raise our vibration and focus on creating an assured, loving world. Here’s a great article from Evolved Dating Gurus in Boulder, Colorado about connecting to your soulmate. Thank you for your time. See you on Friday!

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End of year review and assessment 2017

December 30, 2017

Year after year I send out a message to all my friends and clients to support them to take some inventory about their lives that year and reflect. Sometimes they’ve been long, complicated messages and sometimes they’ve been short and sweet. What I know about people and this time of year is that we’re all […]

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Performance and Pleasure: What does it take to be good in bed?

December 29, 2017

Maddie Berky, a brilliant life coach and friend, and I are collaborating again this week about love and sex. We continue to unpack these delicious, complicated interactions, but also give voice to the male and the female perspective. Today: sex, performance, and pleasure. Maddie says, What makes a man good in bed? That he makes […]

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Petrol for the Soul #60

December 25, 2017

I hope you’re having a great day! If I know people well enough, I know you’ll be on social media even more today than most days so I found some good, entertaining media to check out. If you celebrate Christmas, Merry Christmas to you. https://youtu.be/53pF7o3Ncas http://www.eattoperform.com/2015/12/06/11016/ Take care of your time, live your life to […]

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Sacredness and Sex: How do we create intimate connections in our lives?

December 22, 2017

Maddie Berky, a brilliant life coach and friend, and I are collaborating on some pieces about love and sex. We want to start to unpack these delicious, complicated interactions, but also give voice to the male and the female perspective. The fun part is that I’ve chosen to share the different perspectives in my blog […]

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Petrol for the Soul #59

December 18, 2017

Happy Monday! I’ve got some good content for you here to feed and fuel you. We need the kind and I’ve got it for you. How to Have an Emotional Conversation with Your Emotionally Distant Father Thanks for your time, see you on Friday!

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Needs and Schemes 330

December 15, 2017

We all have things we need. The things we need land on many different levels. The way we seek to get them met and which ones vary on a scale from healthy and generative to unhealthy and toxic. I have a couple of examples; one is a little story about a security guard at Union […]

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Petrol for the Soul #58

December 11, 2017

Hey! I hope your week is starting off great. There sure is some cool energy in the air this time of year. I’ve got a few videos for you here to check out that I think are interesting, beautiful, and something different from the common media available. Check them out and let me know what […]

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This little light of mine.

December 8, 2017

I talk about fulfillment quite a bit. If you haven’t heard me talk about it yet then I’ll have to do it more. And more than talk about it, I try to live it, teach it, and help the world experience more of it. Fulfillment is tricky. What we’ve been taught often causes us to […]

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