Most of the people I know have a pretty good idea about accountability. It’s been a buzz in the areas of ownership, being real, shadow work, and professionalism. Good stuff.
Because of this raging phenomenon I want to add two different points to this that I’ve been toying around with for while now. I’m going to tie in some trust stuff from another blog and bring in some additional features. I’m going to break these up into two different posts.
The first one is simple-we have great ways of sabotaging good things in our lives. We do this by making deals we can’t/won’t keep and then people we care about or want to be in a good relationship with are repelled by our lack of integrity and follow through.
I think all relationship are about bring people closer or pushing them away. We unconsciously push people away. It happens. The why is where the juice is at and I assume that the why is always based on a fear it’s just figuring out what the fear is about.
Anything around deals that doesn’t work because of an incompetence can still likely come from trying to get or be something that we’re not and we’re not being completely real with ourselves. When an agreement falls about and it comes from something around our character I figure has to do with an unconscious entity that’s wreaking havoc on our connections.
The opportunity:
Who are you pushing away in your professional life? Is this an unconscious move to sabotage something that you actually want?
Who are you pushing way in your personal life? What might you be afraid of happening if you achieved greater intimacy with that person?
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