Raising the vibration of your life, becoming more conscious, and upping your game goes across the whole scale. People needing help is people needing help whether they’re needing to solve homelessness or, I shit you not, figuring out where they’re going to spend their millions of dollars so that they feel fulfilled.
You don’t have it all figured out. None of us do. I’m a pretty happy and a very fortunate guy. I’ve solved some of my basic problems and have a good amount of peace and safety in my life. And… I still get bent out of shape when people in my world don’t comply with the reality that I want them to. I also revert back to thinking horrible things about myself and default into thinking I’m unloveable, broken, stupid, and worthless.
The line that tracks anyone’s trajectory is going to be jagged. I hope that its trending upwards for you but it will still rise and fall. And sometimes fall a long ways like a ton of bricks. After we heal, grow, learn, integrate different perspectives, and make shifts we need help all along the way. None of us can easily or clearly see the backs of our own heads. You can use a mirror for a while and it’ll work well but our lives aren’t lived in an echo chamber.
If you think you’re going to figure it all out entirely on your own you need more help than you realize. It doesn’t mean that you’re broken it means you’re still optimizing just like anyone else who’s on the path towards greater awareness, connection to something bigger than themselves, and deeply knowing who the hell you are.
If you think you have it figured out, you don’t, and that very thought will limit your evolution. If you think you’re broken, you’re not, and that too will stifle your healing and transcendence to the next stratus of life.
At a certain point it just becomes about understanding new things, being curious, and being committed to a lifetime of learning. And for our most valuable relationships it’s about growing together and evolving through life bouncing cool things off each other.
The opportunity:
How is your ego stopping you from seeing you still have a gap in your life?
How is your shadow/wound hindering you from reaching the next layer of happiness and love?